Tag: saying no


How to Become a Ninja of NOPE in the New Year
29 Dec 2016

How to Become a Ninja of NOPE in the New Year

One of the hardest lessons I’ve had to learn on my self-care journey is how to say no. I was recently approached by a group of friends and asked to be in charge of a fundraiser at the church my husband and I recently started going to. This request triggered all kinds of thoughts. “How can I say no when our church badly needs some...

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Are You Shoulding all Over Yourself??
27 Mar 2014

Are You Shoulding all Over Yourself??

Are You Shoulding all Over Yourself?? “I should have a salad for dinner.” “I shouldn’t eat this chocolate.” “I should clean my house.” “I shouldn’t get a new car. This one still runs.” Sound familiar? How do you feel when you say “I should really start exercising more” or “I should have a salad”? Excited? Motivated? Or more like… blah? All those shoulds sure make...

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